I didn't expect him to even reply. Like I said, the last time we spoke, I was telling him what an asshole coward he was. But he did reply, telling me he didn't want any hard feelings either. Even though his words had good intentions, they still burned. Was he saying I wasn't a good person? Was that why he didn't want to be with me in the first place? I knew I was for sure overthinking things, and he probably wasn't putting that much thought into it as I was, but that just made me madder.
How could he be so nonchalant about our relationship? Was it nothing to him? I wondered if I was really that over it if I was still super bitter about it. It's not because I wanted to be with him again — not after what he put me through. I just wanted things to be civil because we didn't end on good terms. The conversation on my end was awkward and forced.
Even though we had broken up months prior, there's no way NOT to still feel the sting of his rejection. It's difficult when you open up to someone — letting them know every part of you, physically and emotionally — and they still don't want you. We continued talking. He told me he was going to London and Paris soon, and asked for my recommendations.
Were we friends now? I mean, there's a reason we dated in the first place — friendship couldn't be that far off. After a while it was a habit NOT to think about him. And that's how I got over the hatred and bad feelings. I still sometimes feel upset about everything that happened, but I also know my ex is just a person, like me, and people are often weak, stupid, and selfish.
All it does is make it harder for me to move on. So I stopped. Type keyword s to search. Today's Top Stories. Britney's conservatorship has ended after 13 years. Paris' wedding dress is what dreams are made of. Meghan on the money saving trick she still uses. Best Christmas decorations for Isabella Dias. Related Story. This content is created and maintained by a third party, and imported onto this page to help users provide their email addresses.
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Credits: your tango, getty images. And when I point out our faults in our relationship he gets upset because I tell him I want us to be a little more communicated.
Am I wrong? I ask for very little in my opinion, just abit of his time. REPLY 0 15 hours ago. Anonymous : Can anyone help me with this? Anonymous : I wish my bf would not yell when we argue. He does it without a care in the world as to who hears. When I ask him to please lower his voice, he'll get louder.
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